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felt stuck, like u were buried alive?


I have felt stuck for sure, a lot of the times cause of my mentality and how I can't get over stuff that easily, even tho I want to just move on. I really feel stuff and let it get to me for years at times :< idk especially when I have no distraction I let my past catch up to me even tho I have no control over it. I can just be better from now on and learn, but even tho I have those good thoughts in my heads the negative ones seem to overcome all that
 

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yeah, i've been stuck in my past these past months, i'm not in a good place rn mentally and even tho i try my hardest to move on it's just impossible to me, i think it was triggered by my studies (i'm doing really bad and wanted to give up on them so many times) and my group of friends from uni betrayed me a couple of months ago, i feel so lonely and useless sometimes, it's so sad how i threw away to the trash all my work on self-esteem that i built in the past two years but i can't see me getting any better tbh
 

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yeah, i've been stuck in my past these past months, i'm not in a good place rn mentally and even tho i try my hardest to move on it's just impossible to me, i think it was triggered by my studies (i'm doing really bad and wanted to give up on them so many times) and my group of friends from uni betrayed me a couple of months ago, i feel so lonely and useless sometimes, it's so sad how i threw away to the trash all my work on self-esteem that i built in the past two years but i can't see me getting any better tbh
u just gotta be patient. those feelings can sometimes scar u for life for sure, I'm not gonna deny that, but a lot of times it's momentary and u can move from that, become stronger and live better after. for sure in the moment it sucks, but always remove the feelings of giving up in ur head. there's always something to look forward to, even tho u might not be sure what it is. I'm not myself atm, but I still keep going, through hard times and through hard and ugly thoughts. just try to stay focused on living, even if u don't have a goal. if u have a goal ofc it is easier to do that. it's normal to go back to those thoughts, just don't let them overcome ur life and how u act
 

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u just gotta be patient. those feelings can sometimes scar u for life for sure, I'm not gonna deny that, but a lot of times it's momentary and u can move from that, become stronger and live better after. for sure in the moment it sucks, but always remove the feelings of giving up in ur head. there's always something to look forward to, even tho u might not be sure what it is. I'm not myself atm, but I still keep going, through hard times and through hard and ugly thoughts. just try to stay focused on living, even if u don't have a goal. if u have a goal ofc it is easier to do that. it's normal to go back to those thoughts, just don't let them overcome ur life and how u act
i always try to tell myself the same thing but i end up failing but your words really encouraged me :pepe_sob:
i usually tell my friends and other people that having pacience is the key for most of their problems, i really believe in that but when it comes to myself i just can't be patient, it's also because no one really tells me to be patient, they always trivialize my problems every time i tell other ppl how i'm feeling, that's why i never show my true feelings, i only do it when i'm having the worst thoughts ever in the verge of losing all my shit, that's why your words make me feel better
 

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i always try to tell myself the same thing but i end up failing but your words really encouraged me :pepe_sob:
i usually tell my friends and other people that having pacience is the key for most of their problems, i really believe in that but when it comes to myself i just can't be patient, it's also because no one really tells me to be patient, they always trivialize my problems every time i tell other ppl how i'm feeling, that's why i never show my true feelings, i only do it when i'm having the worst thoughts ever in the verge of losing all my shit, that's why your words make me feel better
hmm if ur friends don't take ur feelings seriously they are probably not the best friends. not calling them bad friends, but there's for sure a lot of people that have no idea what depression is for example and that live super happy and are ignorant to any other feelings. not everyone is capable of understanding u hurting deeply over something that to them might look vulgar u know? that's why every recommends people to go to specialists, cause those people do understand. u can for sure find someone that gets ya and sometimes u don't even need a person and u understanding ur problems is enough, but always try to think ahead. even if u going through an horrible day, think tomorrow u can maybe find someone or find some help and that will make u feel better and more comfy with ur situation
I know it's a very vague suggestion, but it's just true. just like u don't need much to get deeply hurt, u don't need much to get better from it
 

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hmm if ur friends don't take ur feelings seriously they are probably not the best friends. not calling them bad friends, but there's for sure a lot of people that have no idea what depression is for example and that live super happy and are ignorant to any other feelings. not everyone is capable of understanding u hurting deeply over something that to them might look vulgar u know? that's why every recommends people to go to specialists, cause those people do understand. u can for sure find someone that gets ya and sometimes u don't even need a person and u understanding ur problems is enough, but always try to think ahead. even if u going through an horrible day, think tomorrow u can maybe find someone or find some help and that will make u feel better and more comfy with ur situation
I know it's a very vague suggestion, but it's just true. just like u don't need much to get deeply hurt, u don't need much to get better from it
yeah i hate that side of them sometimes, they are really good friends, we know each other since childhood but they lack a lot in mental health education. I also think that sometimes it's also my fault when they trivalize my feelings because i try to be a bright and funny person so when i feel hurt i use a lot of sarcasm and that may confuse ppl whether i'm talking seriously or i just don't care at all about what's going on around me so i kinda understand them. i'd like to go to a specialist but i don't see myself telling my parents since my older brother also has depression and i don't want them to think that they are bad parents or anything else, i don't think that as a parent they'd like to know that both of their child are fucked up and i also hate to be a burden to people. In my uni there are a group os free psychologists for the students and i'm waiting to get an appoinment but it seems impossible because they have a lot of patients atm. I'm really trying to work on myself everyday, I write sometimes my thoughts and feelings to try to understand why i'm feeling like that and even tho some days it's so hard even getting out of bed i live with two of my friends and they help me a lot distracting myself
 

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